So I’m a 35 year old male in a group where me and this girl joke around. She’s a bit “dominate” I guess and tries to be in control. However I don’t really take shit from people and will keep talking if she tells me to stop talking and say what I want. She talks about wanting to bang. Apparently me giving her shit (which I do with all of my friends) and not putting up with her means I’m flirting…am I flirting?
Also she keeps saying she “would me eat me alive” I honestly have no idea what that means, so if anyone knows please let me know.
Sex, she wants sex. In my experience usually big talkers are small performers. So next time she says she will “eat you alive” tell her to prove it.
Asking her to prove it seems fine, but assuming she wants sex, is not something you can afford in 2023. Maybe this girl is op’s boss or some other work thing? Tread carefully. Feel the waters, not the butt.
Don’t date coworkers, especially if there is a power differential.