• LandedGentry@lemmy.zip
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    6 hours ago

    Show me exactly where I defended the system. Show me a single line.

    I said if you don’t want tipping to continue, you can’t support restaurants that tip. If you go to a restaurant that expects tips and you don’t tip, you are keeping them in business while screwing over the person working. It is the worst of all worlds. In that scenario you are perpetuating the system by participating in it. It’s a choice.

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      Show me exactly where I defended the system. Show me a single line.

      You’re just leaving yourself a convenient back door to not tip while benefitting from tipping culture.

      Trying to guilt people into tipping

      But if you would like to go somewhere that expects tips, you better fucking tip

      Literally telling people to tip.

      If you go to a restaurant that expects tips and you don’t tip, you are keeping them in business while screwing over the person working.

      If nobody tipped at those restaurants nobody would work at those restaurants and those restaurants would have to either start paying livable wage or go out of business.

      I said if you don’t want tipping to continue, you can’t support restaurants that tip.

      And I agree. I avoid going to such restaurants if given a chance. But if circumstances require going to such a restaurant do you really think tipping at that restaurant is less beneficial to the restaurant than not tipping?

      In that scenario you are perpetuating the system by participating in it. It’s a choice.

      If circumstances force me to participate then I should go all the way? Is that what you’re saying? So if a vegan orders a plate that happens to have meat in it then the vegan should eat that meat? After-all they’ve already participated by ordering something with meat.

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        4 hours ago

        If

        If

        If.

        I said “if” several times. The point is if you don’t want to tip or support tipping culture, don’t go somewhere that expects tips. So I’m saying “do not go somewhere that expects tips,” because I am against tipping as a system. I have been clear this entire time. I am not guilting people into tipping, I’m saying do not go somewhere where you’re supposed to tip and not tip or you’re even worse than the problem. If you do, you need to tip. But don’t go if you care about ending tipping culture.

        I know you understand exactly what I am saying. Why are you so fragrantly misrepresenting me? Stop lying.

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          4 hours ago

          “If you don’t want to support tipping culture, don’t go somewhere that expects tips. But if you do happen to go somewhere that expects tips (regardless of how you end up going there) you absolutely must support tipping culture”.

          Now let me take your point into absurdity.

          “If you don’t want to support gun violence you shouldn’t own a gun. But if you happen to own a gun you should do a mass shooting.”

          That’s how your argument comes across to me. I have no issue with the first part of your argument, I do that. But I have an issue with the second part because that is defending tipping culture.

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            3 hours ago

            Stop lying and misrepresenting me. I am explicitly against tipping culture. Can you not read? Do I need to break this down further? Or can you stop with this disingenuous bullshit?

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              3 hours ago

              Which part of that statement was lying or misrepresenting? They’re your words. The first part.

              I’m saying “do not go somewhere that expects tips,”

              And the second part.

              I’m saying do not go somewhere where you’re supposed to tip and not tip or you’re even worse than the problem. If you do, you need to tip.

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                3 hours ago

                What are you not getting?

                If you go somewhere that expects tips and don’t tip, you are still feeding the machine. You are still supporting the establishment. They have lost zero dollars because of you. The only person you screwed over is the person working there. So the only moral thing to do if you insist on going to a place that expects tips is to still tip. Otherwise you’re just a piece of shit.

                You cannot say “I am against tipping culture“ simply because you refuse to tip. You cannot be a patron at these establishments. Full Stop. What do you not fucking get? Don’t support these places. Do not go there. Going there and refusing to tip is only hurting workers while still giving the business money.

                I am not explaining this again. Stop telling me what I think. I am explicitly telling you. Stop lying. Stop misrepresenting me.

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                  What are you not getting? Everything you’ve just brought up are things I’ve already covered. I’m done talking to a wall. Either read what I’ve said or stfu.