Bravo for spending your time arguing with a pedant, truly more patient than I would’ve been. People like that make lemmy insufferable. They’re just looking to score a point in a debate and will find any angle to do it. Productive discussion isn’t as important as SLAMMING the “opponent” with a gotcha, it’s exhausting.
It’s interesting to me. I learned some things from the link about democratic confederalism. But yea, “exhausting” is a pretty good word for it over the long term, I often don’t really engage with it. The whole pattern of “I’m going to tell you what YOU think, and what you said, and why the strawman is all wrong” is pretty difficult to interact with, and requires this incredibly tedious process of endlessly clarifying and repeating what it was that I actually said.
I have had it happen where after going through that process for some time, someone realizes that we’re actually largely on the same team as far as some big issues, so maybe it is worthwhile. That’s definitely a minority of the times, but it does happen.
Bravo for spending your time arguing with a pedant, truly more patient than I would’ve been. People like that make lemmy insufferable. They’re just looking to score a point in a debate and will find any angle to do it. Productive discussion isn’t as important as SLAMMING the “opponent” with a gotcha, it’s exhausting.
It’s interesting to me. I learned some things from the link about democratic confederalism. But yea, “exhausting” is a pretty good word for it over the long term, I often don’t really engage with it. The whole pattern of “I’m going to tell you what YOU think, and what you said, and why the strawman is all wrong” is pretty difficult to interact with, and requires this incredibly tedious process of endlessly clarifying and repeating what it was that I actually said.
I have had it happen where after going through that process for some time, someone realizes that we’re actually largely on the same team as far as some big issues, so maybe it is worthwhile. That’s definitely a minority of the times, but it does happen.