After having sex, would you go down on your partner? Or if your partner suddenly started going down on your right away? What are everybody’s thoughts?

  • yup@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 days ago

    I haven’t, but I love when a girl sucks me off after fucking me. My ex used to hop off right before I came and would swallow my load. It was our version of the pull out method.

    That was the best. I wish my wife was open to it. Oh well.

  • HotCoupleSD1959@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 days ago

    👨: Maybe after cleaning up, we do it bareback and my cum always flows out of her. Haven’t done it before honestly 👧: Yeah I’ve done it a lot of times, mostly immediately aftert he nuts in me, I like to be a good girl and clean his dick after it goes out of my pussy. I have no problem tasting my own juices (and his cum lol), I sometimes do it when I masturbate out of curiosity, and he sometimes likes to make me taste his fingers after fingering me hard

  • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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    3 days ago

    After a bit of cleanup, yeah, no big deal.

    Back in the days where condoms were almost always used, it was even a fairly common thing, assuming the specific partner wanted more activity. Not everyone does. I personally can’t handle that much stimulation post ejaculation, but can when I orgasm without ejaculation. So it was less common for me to be up for it (pun intended) afterwards.

    My thing is that I’m not going to lap up my own semen, and most lubricants in condoms taste horrible. So a warm washcloth is a great thing to keep handy. See, even if everyone involved is going to be done after a single orgasm, baby wipes aren’t always the best choice (and that’s ignoring environmental concerns about them). But a nice, warm washcloth is going to do the job of cleanup well no matter who you are and what sensitivity your skin has to chemicals.

    It would be harder to ensure one is available with a random partner, especially at their place. And it definitely kills spontaneity most of the time. But it is the best overall.

    So, you grab your washcloth/s, clean up, and dive in face first.

    Now, because it’s the internet, let me be clear that of someone does want to lap up their own semen, have at it, I ain’t mad. It’s just not something I do. Don’t like it at all, and having done it a couple of times waaaaay back in the day, it isn’t just some kind of arbitrary thing or a mental block.

  • Chastity_Pinguino@lemmynsfw.com
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    3 days ago

    Its one of my biggest kinks, but my partner isn’t very interested in it unfortunately. That, and the post nut clarity tends to make me back out.

  • lazyneet@programming.dev
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    3 days ago

    I’ve only done ass to mouth a couple times. My partners have always been fairly sensitive after orgasm so I’ve just assumed they wouldn’t appreciate it.

  • Imadethis@lemmynsfw.com
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    2 days ago

    I would happily do it to the partner. I don’t know how I’d feel about my partner doing it to me. I’d feel bad for them having to put up with the mess. For me, I always like dental dams and condoms, so it wouldn’t even be the fluid portion of it, just the fact that ‘fluidy’ kinks typically involve degradation, so it’s linked in my mind as degrading my partner.