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  • SpezCanLigmaBalls@lemmy.world
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    2 years ago

    I’m excited to see a bunch of 16 year old with no relationship experience tell everyone the obvious choice is to break up

    • rigo@lemmy.one
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      2 years ago

      Lol maybe in a smaller, more moderated space we can see a difference?

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      2 years ago

      I’ll indeed try to come up with some strategies to reduce the number of uninspired “just break up” comments. Though our goal isn’t silencing users, even if naive or young. We shall see how it goes :D

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        2 years ago

        I know communities like these can get a little silly and they’re easy to make fun of, but they really do serve an important purpose, IMO. The number of people who have to be told that it’s not normal for your partner to scream at you, or that no, your partner actually isn’t a great person if they do fill in the blank is really sad to me. And for every person asking, there are certainly more lurking that can also benefit from reading that. They might have to wade through a bunch of nonsense and AI-generated stories to find it, but I’m glad there’s a place for it.

    • circuscritic@lemmy.ca
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      2 years ago

      That’s not fair.

      Wait, my bad, I was thinking about something else.

      That’s definitely fair, and accurate.

    • stappern
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      2 years ago

      I’m 34 have a shitload of experience and I also advise that most of the times.