Cruelty really isn’t the status quo. You could argue like on the government side of things that there are corrupt officials and things like that and they are cruel.
But if you look at the average person and the average neighborhood and judge the way they think and feel and act, you’re going to find kindness dominates over cruelty and the human nature is generally positive.
And 50% of the time the “kindness” people expect of you turns out to be tool of repression by keeping you in line with what is the expected norms.
Cruelty really isn’t the status quo. You could argue like on the government side of things that there are corrupt officials and things like that and they are cruel.
But if you look at the average person and the average neighborhood and judge the way they think and feel and act, you’re going to find kindness dominates over cruelty and the human nature is generally positive.
And 50% of the time the “kindness” people expect of you turns out to be tool of repression by keeping you in line with what is the expected norms.
Don’t be kind, be you.
Performative cruelty is everywhere. Sure slow it down and people are nice. But its pretty radical to just be kind from the get-go.