You’re claiming people are finding sexism where none exists. This thread alone shows that the post is a magnet for sexism. It’s not crying wolf. Your claim is a denial that it exists in at least one context where it’s incredibly clearly a factor.

So yeah, I extrapolated your opinion to other cases like this. Probably because this attitude has been seen since sexism first became a concern in society. This thread, again, is illustrating that quite well.