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  • Beth@piefed.socialtome_irl@lemmy.worldMe_irl
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    16 days ago

    It’s been like this for me lately. We hired someone and they turned out to be a bully. I have turned to doing my admin work at home due to their constant hounding of me disturbing my peace. Hopefully they’ll be gone soon, as they’ve been written up a couple of times now.





  • Beth@piefed.socialtoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    20 days ago

    A lot of good advice in this thread for some very thoughtful people. OP I want you to practice setting some boundaries with this guy even if you like him and continue seeing him.

    Tell him no about things sometimes. Like “no, I can buy that myself”. Make sure he respects your wishes about minor things and has even, level-headed emotionally mature reactions to your boundaries.