Can you look at any adult products on ali?
here’s a picture, can’t find it on amazon, sorry. It’s sold as “Double-headed Vibrator for Women AV Massage stick Masturbator Female” or “Clitoris Vagina Stimulator Sex Toys for Women AV Rod Big Size Powerful Magic Wand Massager Double-headed Vibrator”.
Sorry, I somehow just assumed you are talking about a long-term relationship, now I see you didn’t mention anything about that :)
So yes, what I said applies to a relationship where you had enough time to build up mutual trust, can’t comment on a fresher one.