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Cake day: March 9th, 2024

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  • I’m fine with some amount of exaggeration (and at least for me, too much realism can actually take me out of the story).

    The guy comes twice, and you write about how this seldom happens to him, is caused by how hot the sex is, how he was longing to be with [partner] for a long time,… – perfectly fine. If he comes 10 times in a row, you better have written multiple paragraphs of explanation for it (medical condition? experimental sex drug? not actually a human? [partner] has magical powers?) ;)


  • There were a lot of those things. And then I just asked for one, and she was into it, and she got braver and asked for things she wanted to do, and now it’s 3 months later and we have tried out a lot of new things. And are both feeling super stupid for not having been confident enough to do this years ago.

    Don’t be us. You love each other, you trust each other, so just ask your SO. But ensure them that it’s perfectly okay if they don’t want to do it, don’t pressure them. If they say no, at least maybe it gives them a little courage to tell you what they would like to try.