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Cake day: November 13th, 2023

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  • I go to kink clubs a lot (like, weekly at least 😈) though generally I don’t fuck there, I just play BDSM. Not every time I go, but I often get offers. But my current girlfriend is a bit kinky, though she never goes to the clubs with me. It’s not how I met her either. So putting a leash on is no big deal as I have all the kinky stuff and she knows I’m into it.

    She doesn’t like faceslapping me, in fact even many dommes don’t. They find it too humiliating or are worried about causing damage. But it really turns me on so I often play with the ones that do.

    I also go to kinky dance parties, often with a domme friend holding me on a leash.

    If you have a partner, I would recommend just bringing it up, perhaps in a milder way at first, to see if she likes it. It was a barrier for me at first too but I feel very liberated since I opened up.
















  • The problem is that their fans will have a hard time (pun not intended :) ) to find their content if it’s a niche interest.

    A downvote should be for something that crosses a line IMO. If everyone starts downvoting stuff they don’t like that they see in their feed, the more niche communities get dumped into the pit and they deserve a place too. Like the top post says, just block a community you’re not interested in and you won’t see it anymore.