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  • azezeB@discuss.tchncs.detoADHD@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    2 months ago

    Not financial advice and i do not have adhd.

    Being neurodivergent is not a choice, so having to feel sorry for yourself, over something out of your control, seems like a bad idea.

    I think it’s fine that you try to cater to a neurotypical partner, but i feel like she could be more understanding of it.

    If your partner feels hurt over how your brain literally works, maybe she is not understanding enough.

    I would try to let my partner know how my brain works, if you are fine with it nice, otherwise maybe staying together is detrimental to both of us.

    Wish you luck!


















  • I think people forget or don’t know how bad it is when you’re working in a non climate controlled building basically being told to work harder and harder.

    By your logic we could go on and on comparing worse working condition.

    I think this type of thinking is detrimental for our own condition. If we are glad that we are not in a worse condition, why would a CEO (or the state or anyone) give us better condition in general?

    I think that complaining is a good thing, because it creates the opportunity for growth