Let me just preface this by saying that I’m not yet 100% sure that this is who I am. But I wanted to try out another name, to see how it feels. Maybe I will realize I’m transfem one day, or maybe that I’m NB or fluid.
What I do know however, is that I want to express myself in more feminine ways, but I wouldn’t want to waste my entire wardrobe, if it’s possible to make something femme out of it.
I thought that you gals would maybe have some tips concerning that, or maybe some good resources you could point me to.
For example, I own a bajillion generic mens’ tshirts, what could I do with those? Tuck them in a skirt? Tie them up to be cropped? Idk
I guess I’m just generally someone who has great fun in making the best out of what they already have.
Also, shoes. Holy cow, shoes. I’m a EU 48, which translates to a UK 13, a US mens’ 14 and a US womens’ 15. Not much choice, is there?
So many new thoughts zooming through my head right now, but this wall of text has to be enough for now, otherwise I wouldn’t be done typing until next week.
Who knows, maybe you’ll hear more from me over the next months of introspection.
TWO YEARS?! 😱
All gender questions, or two years of general learning about yourself?
I’m a little more than two months in and my therapist reassures me that it’s a long slow process, but my 'tism yells at me, “no! We need answers now!”
Just general self-discovery, including things like sexuality and neurodivergence
I feel that last sentence… Like I said in the very first sentence of this post, I’m not yet 100% sure about it, I still need some more time to self-reflect.
I want to have the answers right now.
Well, I have a few answers already.
Does it make me feel all warm and fuzzy inside when you gals call me Nathalie, or when I put that name under an email to see how it looks?
Yes. Absolutely yes.
I came across this book recently, I’ve barely started, but could be helpful 🤷♀️
https://www.amazon.com/You-Your-Gender-Identity-Discovery/dp/1510723056/