Long story short - I have slightly more than a year left before I’m legally required to serve in the Ukrainian military, not that it matters that much since they grab people off the streets anyway, but it will be an even bigger problem since I will officially have no “excuse” not to serve and will have to hide or escape before then, and it doesn’t look like the war will end for the next god knows how many years. Has anyone here draft-dodged or escaped their country in a similar manner before? If so, any advice on how to do so?

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    Kudos to you! Don’t let them take you.

    Travel to Canada on a tourist visa and don’t come back?

    Millions and millions of young Ukrainians have fled already. Surely someone left a how-to, right?

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      I’m sorry to say that men aren’t allowed to leave the country, well, men over 22, and I’m legally classified as male and am slightly older than that, just barely not to be allowed out. While I’ve been on E for more than a year, I don’t think the military will recognize my B cups as an excuse to not send me to die(and I’ve had plenty of govt/medcare workers mock me implying that I’m transitioning to dodge draft. Don’t get me wrong, that’s based, but not what I’m doing it for as I’m DIY). I have someone I love very deeply in the states, so I can just stay there. It’s the crossing of the Ukrainian border that’s the issue. The thing about doing so illegally is that you have to know someone, and have money to do so. I fit neither of those qualifications. I’m sure there must be some loophole, I don’t think this government is good at anything, even at maintaining a meatgrinder, but idk if I can find it in time.

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        The thing about doing so illegally is that you have to know someone, and have money to do so. I fit neither of those qualifications.

        Uff, without these two, things are even more complicated and options are tremendously scarce. However, let’s try to brainstorm some options and see if people add others:

        • Usually smugglers are retired military officers or police men(that’s how it usually goes in Mexico). If things are similar in Ukraine, you could find some with certain hashtags or groups in Facebook or your commonly used social media. However, BE ADVISED, this is a dangerous path and it is even more dangerous for women and LGBT comrades. You can check the rates and save up before you reach the age legally require to be forced into conscription. If you do follow this, you need to rush to save money to be able to do this.
        • How about living in hiding in another place far from your designated residence?
        • Have you checked if any embassy have humanitarian programs that could help you leave?
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          Thank you for the insight, I am saving money atm (though an english teacher’s salary isn’t exactly the best for doing so I am working on a fansly account to hopefully get at least some pennies in) for that exact reason, and I have some support from overseas but it’s not too reliable. I’ll try looking for smuggling options, tho the govt here cracks down on that kinda stuff pretty heavily. I actually haven’t checked the embassy bit, thank you for suggesting that - maybe I’ll find some luck there. As for living somewhere away - I’m living not that far from my old home but there is no contractual documentation that would let the govt know that I live here, and my job kinda makes me live a secluded work-from-home life, which is a small extra layer of safety.

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        Hook up with people in Germany that can come in as visitors and maybe escort you out. I’d try the Romanian border instead though and pre-arrange bribing the border guards. No shame in that. I don’t know if it’s viable to do a border crossing on foot but I’ve known at least one person who entered Ukraine from the south remarkably easy so getting out may not be too hard in emergencies. Be very careful with any option.

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          Thank you, I actually haven’t heard much of people running from the south, mostly just attempting to swim across a river in the west (and get caught). Now that I think about it, I prolly don’t hear about it cause they have no problem leaving the country lmao. One more direction to look at.