No idea why this is downvoted, it’s substanceless virtue signalling or repurposing 5 year old reddit culture sentiments into 4 panel soullessness

Please sir, you aren’t enjoying your experience

Once again, that’s just a slippery slope to victim blaming.

“Couldn’t you just have… thought about it differently?”

Like I said, you’re not being subtle.

No, it’s because you don’t understand trauma at all apparently.

It’s not the cultural conversation around your first time that causes it to be traumatic.

It is that your first time experiencing anything, is when you are most susceptible to create strong associations around it. Much more so in any intense experience.

That’s how many phobias are created.

I’m trying to tell you that this idea that trauma is intellectually malleable is extremely offensive, because that is not how it works.

I fully acknowledge that

No it’s not.

You don’t get define whether trauma becomes part of your identity, it is traumatic because it becomes part of your identity whether you want it to or not.

This is really offensive.

I’m not really sure where you get the idea from that I’m a woman, but what you just said seems really sexist.

You already know the research on this, right?

Yeah, go tell sone of your female friends in real life that karaoke is comparable to their first time.

I’m sure you will, because they’re totally comparable and you’re not a troll, right?

I’ll wait for your screenshot showing how they reacted.

No further replies until then.

Your thinly veiled victim blaming talking points are not as subtle as you think cowboy.

I’m happy to hear that for you.

I don’t know a single woman who’s not been traumatized by their first time.

Please don’t go around telling people trauma is a mindset again.

Unfortunately the fact that it wasn’t traumatizing is pretty special, you just never needed to find that out fortunately

Karaoke is not a comparable situation regardless

That actually makes it worse. Trauma is healed by being acknowledged, not trivialized.

First times of everything is considered special throughout all cultures, it goes without say that the more intense and intimate the more special.

Lmao

So for you karaoke and being internally penetrated is similar, that’s fine. But I’m assuming you have the command of your senses to realize that this is not a normal point of view, peobably not a healthy one either.

It’s disappointing because we don’t talk more about what it should be like. We don’t expect men to do better about it. If someone had taught me how important it was and what things were at stake for women’s first time, I’d have done it a lot differently.

Many women, if not nearly all, carry trauma from their first time as well.

Not at all, they had no idea who I actually was back then either