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Cake day: July 3rd, 2023

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  • certainly aren’t seeking out the kinds of spaces that would be partisan on it in some way. their opinions on this are accordingly malleable based on “does this feel good or bad,”

    That’s in line with what I was saying - that most people’s takes on congestion pricing (and honestly all other policy) is just vibes. I’d hope that stats and facts would sway them, but I’ve met people. But then again you cite there a large change towards supporting it as evidence builds, so maybe there’s hope.





  • You don’t need to understand before you ask. That’s why you ask. To find out.

    When I was younger I used to waste a lot of time thinking and wondering about people instead of just making moves. And so I didn’t go out with people, I didn’t get to do a lot of stuff.

    Now I just ask people. Sometimes there’s rejection, but that’s okay. Sometimes there’s success, too.

    (Written from the perspective of a man. Women are often held to different standards, and some people may take offense to a woman acting independently. Personally, I think those people stink, and you probably don’t want to be involved in someone who’s going to be mad about you using your agency anyway.)




  • We would probably be fine if people who wanted to work just kept working. Or if we had universal basic income, so people could more freely choose if they wanted to trade their time+labor for something else.

    Like, if absolutely no one wants to tend the fields then that’s going to be a problem for food. I think there are enough people who would do it because they want to, especially for jobs that are local. But even if not, you could still offer money. Having basic income (or some other mechanism to assure basic needs are met) in place means it’s much less coercive, because it’s no longer a question of labor or suffer


  • No. Your reading of it is unusual, in most contexts. It almost always means “agreement, and I have nothing of substance to add”.

    It can be rude if the thing you’ve said should warrant a substantial response. Like if you wrote “my brother just died in a car wreck”, a thumbs up (or probably any emoji) would be an inappropriate response. Heavier stuff warrants whole words.

    But if it’s like “Can you get cat food at the store? The kind we always get” then a thumbs up is an acceptable shorthand for "yes, I understand and commit to this request "