It feels like the activity is partaking of me rather than the reverse

Thanks for giving me these words to describe the feeling so well. I don’t feel interested and passionate… I feel consumed and dominated.

Now that I think about it, lots of words that describe focus have etymologies that feel appropriately sinister. Captivated, enthralled, enraptured, fascinated, bewitched, mesmerized, hooked - all related to being controlled against your will.

Local hospital claims the lives of thousands of patients. Will it strike again?

FYI, your second link goes to c/karate

Kbin and Lemmy are separate pieces of software, yes, but they work in similar ways. The fediverse has a few examples of different software projects that have some overlap in their function and presentation, like Mastodon and Calckey, for instance.

Unlike Lemmy, Kbin has a native microblog feed in addition to the threaded posts like what you see on Lemmy.

Kbin magazines are equivalent to Lemmy communities in just about every way except their name.

ActivityPub is an information-sharing protocol: basically a well-defined set of rules that multiple pieces of software can adopt if they want to share information with each other programmatically.

Any platform that is built on ActivityPub can theoretically communicate with any other platform built on ActivityPub, although they don’t necessarily have to do that in all cases if they don’t want to.

As a lemmy user, you should (assuming everything is working correctly) be able to follow any magazine on Kbin exactly as if it was a community on Lemmy, so no need for FOMO. Also, there’s no reason why you can’t have one account on a Lemmy instance and another on a Kbin instance at the same time.

Plenty of people within sexual relationships do sexual roleplaying with each other, to the point that it’s a trope. People are definitely interested in sexual roleplaying.

As for why there’s no TTRPG market for it, I can think of at least two barriers. One: people generally aren’t interested in doing sexual roleplaying outside the boundaries of an already-sexual relationship. Two: people who do sexual roleplaying within already-sexual relationships aren’t interested in buying a rulebook for it.

In casual sexual encounters, you’d never be able to expect someone else to know the rules, so even if they were interested, you’d have to teach them on the spot. In committed relationships, the structure of a ruleset is probably not necessary.

I could see there being a successful but small market, within the larger market of sex toys and games, for one-pagers that people in actively sexual relationships could buy to aid roleplaying with fun prompts or genre-specific character concepts.

It’s more of a stretch, but there are two groups of people who regularly do improv with strangers/acquaintances in sexual situations. One is porn actors. Kinda silly, but maybe there’s a market for a sex-TTRPG-based entertainment property in porn, in the style of D&D podcasts/shows. The other is cybersex chat room users. There could be something that caters to them, and chat rooms could facilitate connections between users that prefer particular systems, like you can do on Roll20 (“LFG”).

I think someone will add it to base Lemmy eventually, but I doubt it’s high priority. Might be a while.

by force if necessary

That’s a complicated question.

I’m going to make an assumption that, for your purposes, you most likely don’t have anything to worry about, but still:

Does participating in an online community about anarchism out you on a watchlist? There’s no way to know what precisely constitutes a “watchlist” or what criteria US intelligence agencies use to populate them, but we do know that the DOD considers anarchists an “extremist ideology” that constitutes a potential “internal threat.” Public communications and documents from US agencies indicate that “anarchist extremism” and/or “anarchist violent extremism” is a threat that is being monitored by law enforcement and intelligence agencies.

To address the question of violence, we also know that certain methods of surveillance by the US government are notoriously broad, and are not predicated on the commission of a crime, so it’s not unlikely that simple suspicions of anarchist extremism could land your data in an NSA database somewhere. However, your data on an NSA watchlist is very unlikely to get you arrested if all you do is talk about the ideology and don’t make anything that constitutes a threat of harm. And you’re probably in that database anyway for some other reason.

Can you get arrested/charged for crimes? Not to be hyperbolic, but police can arrest you and charge you with crimes for any reason at any time. There’s nothing you can do that guarantees you won’t ever be arrested. That being said, being arrested and charged does not mean you’ll be convicted, and police don’t have infinite resources to just arrest anyone and everyone forever.

Still, are there examples of anarchists who have been spuriously arrested and charged with crimes despite being nonviolent? Yes. I’ve been arrested for nonviolent, legal political protest. I wasn’t breaking any laws. I spent a day in jail on a made up charge, then they released me and never pursued the charge in court. Just a scare tactic. That’s not an unusual story.

For a more extreme and recent example, anarchists in Atlanta are being charged with domestic terrorism, and one of them was extrajudicially murdered, for their nonviolent protests to stop cop city. Organizers for the legal, nonprofit bail fund in Atlanta were also arrested and charged spuriously with money laundering and charity fraud in a related case.

Two things about those incidents, though. One, these arrests are by local police with a grudge, and so I doubt it’s related to a federal watchlist. Two, the victims are actively engaged in organizing for a political protest movement, not just chatting about Bakunin and Proudhon on a forum.

I think you should get involved, talk, and learn more about anarchism, socialism, communism, any stripe of anti-capitalism. I’m confident that you can learn about it and chat about it safely, regardless of whether your data ends up in an NSA database. But you should be aware that getting involved in IRL organizing on the left, even nonviolently (as it almost always is), isn’t safe. It’s absolutely, 100% worth doing, but political resistance has never been safe, and part of a good education is learning how to protect yourself.

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I think I’ll always prefer to maintain two accounts just for the flexibility, but if I could follow a stream of /c/ posts-only from my Mastodon, it would really simplify the process of sharing those posts to my mastodon folks.

Right now, unless I follow the firehose of an entire /c/, then sharing a post to Mastodon means I have to see it from my Lemmy account, copy the post link, rewrite the link to open on my Mastodon instance, open it, and then share it.

they’re gonna love that sweet, sweet liability

AKA scabs

Tried to follow a couple Lemmy communities from Mastodon, but it feeds you every post and comment, which gets unmanageable at any /c/ of reasonable size.

Is there a way that I can follow only the top-level posts from my Mastodon? Maybe I’m missing it.

I had the exact same experience as you. No idea why, but you aren’t alone.

Same. Finding an instance with the best community or matching interests felt silly when everything is changing quickly and discovery is still underbaked. I went with Lemmy.world because they seemed like the most capable admins.