I am a 23 year old female with a IQ of 76. Ask me anything

  • Allero@lemmy.today
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    A gentle reminder that about half the population has their IQ below the average (“about” because average≠median, yes, nerds, I know)

    Having it below 100 is nothing to worry about, just like having anything below average is.

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    An important aspect to remember about IQ scores is that they are not meant to be a measure of how intelligent you are, but more about how you process information and, thus, how easily/quickly you learn new information. You’re still “intelligent,” it may just take you a little longer to “get it” when learning new things, though. That’s ok, as long as you’re learning!

    Also remember that an IQ score is a predictor of performance, not a limit.

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      Thank you, I had a lot of people complimenting me on my English and grammar and saying that I can’t be low IQ. I love those comments. It has taken me a lot of effort to improve on my English which is hard with dyslexia. I’m proud of the progress I’ve made in the past 5 years. Modern technology helps the lot. The voice to text feature on my phone is a big help and writing down words I can’t spell also helps.

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    Thank you for answering so many questions. This is a very interesting thread.

    Do you feel supported by your parents and friends IRL or rather misunderstood?

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      No problem

      “Do you feel supported by your parents and friends IRL or rather misunderstood?”

      By parents definitely not but with friends I feel very misunderstood. They always use words like “R*traded” “sped” and “spaz” and they always use low IQ as a insult. Not against me but just as general banter. They don’t know about my IQ or learning disabilities so it’s very isolating to hear them say those things as I am all of them.

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    I’ve personally known PhD’s with learning disabilities who excelled where others did not. They told me, independently from each other, that it was determination and hard work that got them ahead of everyone else, not intelligence. They simply worked harder than everyone else. It’s not intelligence that gets you ahead, it’s the effort that you put into it.

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      Easier said than done. I was never the best student in school at best I only ever got B’s and C’s and I had to repeat the 7th and 9th grade. I was a super senior I graduated at age 20. I understand I’m not as impressive as other people but I’ll be dammed if I didn’t work my ass off for what I’ve got.

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      19 hours ago

      I got a test from MENSA and I was expecting the results as I did another IQ test when I was 14

      • sit@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        17 hours ago

        Googling Mensa: Mensa international:

        This online test gives an indication of general cognitive abilities, represented by an IQ score of between 85 and 145, where 100 is the population average.

        Did you take this test? If yes, how was your result below the lowest value?

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    No more questions but this was fascinating and you seem like a super cool person with a lot of depth. Thanks for being vulnerable here

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    For what it’s worth, free IQ tests are notoriously bad for evaluating general intellectual capacity, and tend to evaluate visual pattern recognition.

    On top of that, you can learn how IQ tests are evaluated and score higher on them in a matter of seconds.

    For example:

    The answers are in the diagonals.

    For this example, on the diagonals are the number of dots.

    For this example, on the diagonals are the arrow directions.

    Having this knowledge can easily boost your IQ score by 10.

    In any case, intellect has many different facets; memory retention, memory recall speed, emotional intelligence, motivation, visual/spacial, verbal, etc.

    There are people who are Mensa certified geniuses who can’t hold a conversation to save their lives, or boast to others about their score, which is… really dumb.

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      Is that the intended solution to the question, or just some sort of hack? For me, when solving that, I notice the arrows are rotating clockwise when viewing each row left to right, and that each row contains a triangle with 1, 2, and 3 dots. Same answer, very different strategy.

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        That is the logic reasoning it is supposed to test. Deduction to find the relationships.

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        Most IQ tests specify that the patterns only go horizontally and vertically, so yeah I think your answer is the intended one.

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        IQ tests generally start out easy, and have multiple solutions to account for different pattern recognition.

        The later questions will only have one correct way to solve the question.

        The reason I demonstrated the method of solving the question this way is because many IQ tests rely on this format.

        Many people will look at the columns and rows, but not the diagonals, thus, why having the knowledge is a huge boost.

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      1 day ago

      Know what you’re talking about. There’s a guy on YouTube who’s in a similar situation to me called Mark Malloy. He talks a lot about IQ maxxing shall we say.

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        I just found this video by him.

        It perfectly encapsulates what I’m talking about, when I say motivation is a part of intelligence. A raw IQ of 150 is functionally useless, and letting that potential go to waste is… really dumb.

        This guy Mark, is motivated to attain gainful employment so he can sustain himself, and is trying to improve his intellect in the meanwhile, which demonstrates a intuitive wisdom most people lack.

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          Yeah that’s him…

          I’ve been working on my motivation it’s hard but I give myself goals. I would love to have a higher IQ somehow.

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            I watched a few of Marks videos and I’m not convinced he is as stupid as he believes himself to be, just read the comments on his videos.

            Through my life I’ve been told by people I’m smart, which gave me an ego, and lead me to being an asshole to people I deemed less intelligent.

            Later in life I began to resent the association, and I almost reflexively deny any assertions that I am anything other than slightly above average.

            As aforementioned, getting stuck on how intelligent you are is the wrong metric to evaluate your personal worth. I wish that instead of being told I’m smart, that people praised me for my effort.

            For example, if there was a word I’ve wrote which you don’t know the meaning of, look it up - that’s a very simple way to improve your vocabulary, which helps to improve how you navigate your own mind.

            I feel that encouraging growth is far more important than telling someone they have some kind of innate talent, and it’s something I live by.

            If I can offer one resource for you to study to “have a higher IQ”, it’s learning about logical fallacies.

            To put it simply, people are stupid because they fail to recognize flaws in their own thinking. With the link I’ve given you, click on each fallacy and try to think of a time when you’ve committed that fallacy.

            It can be a bit wordy, so don’t worry if you don’t entirely understand the definition. Try to infer the meaning by reading the examples in bold at the bottom of each fallacy.

            Even very intelligent people are not immune from logical contradictions, so don’t be disheartened if you begin to recognize you’ve got some bad habits.

            And whatever you do, if you notice someone else committing these fallacies, keep it to yourself. Too many people learn basic epistemology (study of knowledge itself) and think they’re capable of debating others by dismantling the other persons arguments by citing their fallacies. This is… (say it with me)… really dumb!

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              Do you think that there is like an opposite to the Dunning/Kruger effect were really smart people think of them selves as dumber than they really are

              • Zozano@lemy.lol
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                Absolutely, though I wouldn’t say it’s an opposite Dunning/Kruger, just that smart people are further along the x-axis.

                Having the knowledge to understand how much you don’t know is both a blessing and a curse.

                The curse: It is hard to project a true sense of authority, because to yourself, you do not believe you’re competent enough.

                The blessing: humility. You understand that everyone fits on the graph somewhere.

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                I’ve tended to score suspiciously high on most aptitude/iq type tests my entire life (70s kid, among the earliest ADD diagnoses, etc) and tbh i think I am quite a lot dumber than those tests imply.

                Show of hands all y’all “talented and gifted” kids that never did nuthin …

                *edit: to be clear, I don’t think ‘raw intelligence’ or anything similar necessarily confers a lot of life benefits. It can, but doesn’t always or maybe even most of the time.

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    Thank you for this AMA it is very interesting to get your viewpoint.

    I have many questions, feel free not to answer them if you don’t like them.

    When have you discovered that you are different? What happened? Why did you take IQ tests?

    Can you share story about something that is different between you and average people?

    Is your memory worse or just the thinking process?

    Do you have any idea why your IQ is so low? Is it just coincidence or something happened while you were young?

    How can I recognize that someone has low IQ? How should I act when I meet someone with low IQ, should I use simpler sentences or simpler ideas?

    Thank you.

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      “When have you discovered that you are different? What happened? Why did you take IQ tests?”

      I was always slower then other kids my age. When I was 14 I was made to do an IQ test by the teachers in my school when I discovered my IQ at the time was 73.

      “Can you share story about something that is different between you and average people?”

      There’s plenty. When I was 18 somebody asked me how to spell something and I just couldn’t spell it and I broke down in tears. It was pretty embarrassing.

      “Is your memory worse or just the thinking process?”

      I think it’s both. My memory isn’t very good and my thinking process is very limited.

      “Do you have any idea why your IQ is so low? Is it just coincidence or something happened while you were young?”

      I think my mom drank while she was pregnant. Which explains why I’m different then my brothers and sisters. I don’t know if that’s true though maybe I just lost the genetic lottery.

      “How can I recognize that someone has low IQ? How should I act when I meet someone with low IQ, should I use simpler sentences or simpler ideas?”

      Not really, IQ isn’t immediately obvious like other disabilities and if you meet someone with low IQ just speak and treat them like there anyone else.

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        Your responses suggest a higher score in language, is your 73 the average of all the test areas? Such as math, etc.

        • SpaceFox:3@lemmy.mlOP
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          My 73 score was when I was 14 it’s now 76. I don’t know the average IW of my area.

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        Thank you for sharing your story, it must be a difficult life. Life is hard with 120, I barely make it, I can not even imagine your case especially together with NPD.

        I have seen your other AMA about NPD, and I can understand “trauma”. I “only” had really bad decades long depression and anxiety and have found way out of it with good therapy (which is rare).

        Good luck to you, I hope you will have some luck further on.

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          Thank you for your understanding. I don’t think all mental illness’s are caused by trauma. I don’t know where my NPD or HPD came from. I really wish I could be like everyone else. I feel like I’m being sabotaged from within.

  • zaza [she/they/her]@lemmy.ml
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    How did you find out about Lemmy? It seems it’s mostly a niche place for tech nerds and commies and you don’t seem to be either? Also what keeps you here? Wouldn’t the NPD push you towards more popular platforms?

    Sorry for asking so many questions - your experience sounds very unique and you actually seem very eloquent and thoughtful.

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      “How did you find out about Lemmy?”

      I looked up Reddit alternatives and it came up. Reddit has a bad reputation and it’s got too many rules. It’s impossible to post anywhere cuz you never have enough karma.

      “It seems it’s mostly a niche place for tech nerds and commies and you don’t seem to be either?”

      Well, I was pretty interested in programming a few years ago because of game modding.

      “Also what keeps you here?”

      Same things that keep me anywhere. Interacting with others and the interesting communities.

      “Wouldn’t the NPD push you towards more popular platforms?”

      It has been proven that people with NPD use social media more. I’m no exception I have accounts on Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, twitter and SnapChat.

      “Sorry for asking so many questions”

      It’s no problem that’s what I’m here for.

      “your experience sounds very unique and you actually seem very eloquent and thoughtful.”

      Isn’t everyone’s? And thank you I’ve worked on words and spelling for a while now.