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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 13 hours ago

neurodivergence rule

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neurodivergence rule

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TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 13 hours ago
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  • edinbruh
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    13 hours ago

    And why is that?

    • heliotrope@slrpnk.net
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      12 hours ago

      There can be a few reasons. Sensory, coordination, neurological… Usually it simply feels more natural.

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        9 hours ago

        …pretending to have digitigrade legs…

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          • n0xy@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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            5 hours ago

            to walk like animals who walk on their toes

            • heliotrope@slrpnk.net
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              4 hours ago

              I do not believe that is as relevant as you think it is.

              There is a certain overlap between autistic people and furries/therians, but that is very much not the reason for this behaviour.

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                I’m not really a furry, but this is still part of it for me

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        I don’t walk like this, but it is more natural. We would walk like that barefoot. Heel first is a shoe thing

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          Heel first walking is entirely normal on most flat-ish surfaces.

          Heel first running quickly becomes painful on anything but soft grass, if you don’t have modern shoes.

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            6 hours ago

            Heel first running

            Yes, I confused it with something I saw about running

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          That is simply not correct. The development happened when humanity started walking upright. It had nothing to do with shoes. So it is not more natural.

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            You are right. I was also talking about which part of the foot hits the ground first

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              I understood what you meant, I’m just saying heel first is not a shoe thing. It’s a walking upright thing.

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                6 hours ago

                Yes, I didn’t disagree with that. I just meant that I got two things wrong.

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        11 hours ago

        Never thought about that thanks for educagting :3

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        Furry

        TIL 196 hates furries

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          !196@pawb.social

        • Don't forget to stay hydrated.🍉🍉🍉🍉🍉@sh.itjust.works
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          I think the person just listed another reason, walking somewhat like a digitigrade creature.
          (I see their comment just got downvoted so far.)

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            Oh, makes sense, thanks

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            10 hours ago

            Thank you.

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          11 hours ago

          Oh wow, and?

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            11 hours ago

            Tf you mean and?

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              Usually when someone says “furry” without context is pointing out the other user is a furry, happens too often

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