So I’ve realized that in conversations I’ll use traditional terms for men as general terms for all genders, both singularly and for groups. I always mean it well, but I’ve been thinking that it’s not as inclusive to women/trans people.

For example I would say:

“What’s up guys?” “How’s it going man?” "Good job, my dude!” etc.

Replacing these terms with person, people, etc sounds awkward. Y’all works but sounds very southern US (nowhere near where I am located) so it sounds out of place.

So what are some better options?

Edit: thanks for all the answers peoples, I appreciate the honest ones and some of the funny ones.

The simplest approach is to just drop the usage of guys, man, etc. Folks for groups and mate for singular appeal to me when I do want to add one in between friends.

  • go $fsck yourself@lemmy.worldEnglish
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    8 months ago

    I find your perspective and words judgemental, assumptive, and accusatory.

    I can see no evidence of a good faith discussion from your end, so I will no longer continue with you.

    I hope these words might help you move beyond the veil that causes you to be so assumptive:

    If you look for the light, you can often find it.But if you look for the dark that is all you will ever see.